6 Tools for Motivation
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6 Tools for Motivation

Updated: Aug 20


Understanding Motivation


Motivation isn't a mood that strikes suddenly. It's not like a lightning bolt that hits when the stars align perfectly. You can't simply grab motivation out of your closet and wear it like a new outfit. While it may work this way sometimes, true motivation runs much deeper.


Motivation is a side effect, not the starting point. It often arises from taking action, rather than serving as its cause. Instead of a spontaneous surge of energy, motivation is a psychological byproduct of accomplishment. It develops when your brain registers progress, signaling that "we're doing something good here."


The Science of Motivation


Motivation is closely linked to the brain’s dopamine system. Dopamine, known as the "feel-good" chemical, increases not only from rewards but also from the anticipation of rewards. When you take that initial small step—like writing a single sentence, doing five jumping jacks, or washing a single dish—your brain receives a mini 'success' hit. This can kickstart a motivation loop that looks like this:


  • Action → Small win → Dopamine → Motivation → More action


Initially, you must trigger this loop manually. Waiting for motivation is akin to waiting for your muscles to grow strong before you even step foot in the gym.


Types of Motivation


Understanding the different types of motivation can help you figure out your driving forces:


  • Intrinsic motivation: Engaging in activities for their inherent rewards, like painting because it brings you joy.

  • Extrinsic motivation: Performing tasks for external rewards, such as studying hard to achieve good grades.


Why Motivation Disappears


According to Self-Determination Theory, motivation thrives when three core needs are satisfied:


  • Autonomy: The feeling of making your own choices.

  • Competence: The sense that you are skilled at what you are doing.

  • Relatedness: The feeling of connection to others.


If you're feeling stuck, one or all of these needs may be out of balance.


Strategies for Overcoming Low Motivation


So, what should you do when motivation feels absent? Here are some helpful strategies:


Lower the Bar


Start by shrinking the task into something extremely small.


  • Can't get yourself to work out? Try just putting on your workout clothes.

  • Struggling to write a report? Commit to writing just one sentence.


Remember, action comes before motivation.


Act Despite Your Feelings


Feelings can be unreliable. Relying solely on motivation can lead to inaction. Train yourself to move forward even when you lack the inner spark. This is where real change occurs.


Set a Time Limit


Tell yourself that you only need to engage in the task for five minutes. Often, starting is the hardest part. Once you begin, momentum will likely carry you further.


Reduce External Stimuli


If you're constantly bombarded by social media, texts, and noise, your brain may not crave effort. Create moments of silence or focus time to allow mental space for drive to grow.


Reflect on Your Goals


A lack of motivation can signal that you've lost sight of your larger goals. Ask yourself the following questions:


  • Why did I want this in the first place?

  • Who will I become if I stay consistent?


Recognizing Underlying Issues


Sometimes low motivation stems from deeper issues. It may indicate burnout, poor sleep quality, inadequate nutrition, or mental health challenges. In these cases, what you might need isn't a boost in motivation, but rather rest or emotional regulation.


Embracing Imperfection


You won't always feel prepared, and the stars won’t always align perfectly. Push through anyway. True progress is often found in the ordinary moments, not solely in flashes of inspiration.


To Sum it Up


Start small, even if you're tired or uncertain. Take the first step anyway. That's precisely how motivation finds you. If you’ve tried these strategies and still struggle, consider seeking professional help. Visit a therapist or a doctor. You can also read this insightful blog on managing feelings of depression and deep rest: Read More.


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